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Turtleneck Posted Sat 12 Jul, 2008 12:26 AM |
| Let her down in STYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYLE! |
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minnmess Posted Sat 12 Jul, 2008 12:50 AM |
Turtleneck wrote: Let her down in STYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYLE!
hahaha, well said Fran Healy |
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Yulia Nox Posted Sat 12 Jul, 2008 1:16 AM |
paul_c wrote: I think it depends on the individual case and the maturity of the people involved.
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Lemon Grinner Posted Sat 12 Jul, 2008 3:23 AM |
| When I was 17 I met a 29 year old and he was the fucking mutt's nuts. |
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Nikki Posted Sat 12 Jul, 2008 4:13 AM |
I agree with everyone...16 years old is far too young for a 24 year old. The maturity level is completely different there. You're still a kid when you're 16!
I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 28...a bit of an age difference there, but we're on the same level. It's less of a big deal when you get older.
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galletitabonita Posted Sat 12 Jul, 2008 7:59 AM |
| my first boyfriend was about 25 years old when I was just 16... and if you ask me, I have to tell you that it has been my best relationship EVER! Shame cause it's over ¬¬ |
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mili Posted Sat 12 Jul, 2008 9:20 AM |
damon wrote: dammmmmm !!!
i exactly knew all your anwsers,,, and i fully agreed, the thing is, and obviously is not an excuse, but at the beggening when we met we didn't know the age difference, and we were ok, the conversation & dancing, everything, even she tought i was younger and i tought she was older, but i do feel stange trying to date a 16 years girl (no woman, girl),
as a matter of fact, in Mexico you could be sued for child abuse, until she's 18 her parents have the rights upon her,,, (i don't the english vocabulary),,,
and yes i don't know if i can stand hanging with 16 girls... hahaha nanananana ! i meet a girl in razz party... she looks she was 19... (u16 girls)
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damm, i felt crazy atracted by her,,,, i think i should move over..
Pity you met now, not a few years later.
My husband is five years older than me, but we met when I was 22. |
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Turtleneck Posted Sat 12 Jul, 2008 3:05 PM |
Nikki wrote:
I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 28.
Same age that Don and I were when we got married. At the time, I didn't think I was getting married young, but in retrospect, I guess I did. Since we had already been together for so long, we kinda felt married already, if that makes any sense. |
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Scottish Dubliner Posted Sat 12 Jul, 2008 3:09 PM |
I do think the older you get the less important it becomes, but let's face it 16 is a minor male or female.
I'm 35 and I'm still learning to grow up so I don't think you ever become fully an adult.... until you snuff it or lose yer mind.
Dubz
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Delia24Oct07 Posted Sat 12 Jul, 2008 3:13 PM |
I'm 18 now and I've never had a serious relationship before so I'm not the best to talk about this...
I think, at my age it's better to have an older man for a relationship because the boys at my age are just too childish. But I think 24 is a bit too old for a sixteen years old girl, about two or three years would do. |
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Lemon Grinner Posted Sat 12 Jul, 2008 3:14 PM |
It all ultimately comes down to the maturity of the individual and where they both want the relationship to go. If one just wants a casual thing and the other wants to settle down then obviously it isn't going to work. And I know people in their late 20s who are a lot less mature than some of my teenage friends.
Age is just a number, blah blah blah. |
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spid Posted Sat 12 Jul, 2008 4:30 PM |
When I was 17 I went out with a 25 year old - it didn't work out - but it was a good status symbol - for us both. Personally I think it is a too young.
But you are thinking about it and that is what matters - stay friends and try again in 2 years. |
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Chiito-chan Posted Sat 12 Jul, 2008 6:52 PM |
paul_c wrote: I think it depends on the individual case and the maturity of the people involved.
I agree. As Grin says: Age is just a number, blah blah blah. |
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Hanne Posted Sat 12 Jul, 2008 8:30 PM |
Turtleneck wrote:
Same age that Don and I were when we got married. At the time, I didn't think I was getting married young, but in retrospect, I guess I did. Since we had already been together for so long, we kinda felt married already, if that makes any sense.
It makes perfect sense; a wedding is just a confirmation of a relationship. Some people suffer from the illusion that a wedding can repair a relationship, but everyday life will just go on after the wedding, married or not. |
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mozman68 Posted Sun 13 Jul, 2008 3:14 AM |
It was a real issue with the wife and I....but I eventually caved in...and the fact that she's 5 days older than me hasn't made a difference.... |
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