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Carmencita Posted Wed 26 Mar, 2008 1:43 AM |
| I am inspired love for 6 years of my best friend and do not support more this secret..But if I him tell the truth maybe let's stop being friends...what I can do? |
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iraida Posted Wed 26 Mar, 2008 1:57 AM |
| Que juerte .... yo te tu me lo emborracho y le tiro jajaj .... despues le cuento :) |
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missmoo Posted Wed 26 Mar, 2008 8:12 AM |
| If he is a good friend, he should be understanding :) |
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Peewee Posted Wed 26 Mar, 2008 12:00 PM |
| Just grow some balls and get in there! :) |
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ricv64 Posted Wed 26 Mar, 2008 12:31 PM |
Peewee wrote: Just grow some balls and get in there! :)
Hey Pee Wee , Esteban has logged in on your account |
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Darran Posted Wed 26 Mar, 2008 12:42 PM |
| If you grow some balls he may think differently of you. |
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Peewee Posted Wed 26 Mar, 2008 12:44 PM |
| Ha ha yes he is the Master and I have learnt from him! ;) |
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ricv64 Posted Wed 26 Mar, 2008 1:32 PM |
Peewee wrote: Ha ha yes he is the Master and I have learnt from him! ;)
didn't realize he offered a course , is it accredited ? |
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Moray Posted Wed 26 Mar, 2008 1:50 PM |
| He's a guy. He probably spends most of his time wondering what you look like in the nude, and will therefore be delighted by this revalation. Ask Billy Crystal in when Harry Met Sally. |
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gaby Posted Wed 26 Mar, 2008 3:21 PM |
MoraySwan wrote: He's a guy. He probably spends most of his time wondering what you look like in the nude, and will therefore be delighted by this revalation. Ask Billy Crystal in when Harry Met Sally.
lol, agree with MoraySwan! (based on the many talks with my male friends, "when Harry Met Sally" it´s almost a fact) ;)
I also think you should tell him, then you would stop wondering and you would know, in fact, if he feels the same or not (and lets face it, the moment you started feeling something more was when the friendship was over). So there are 2 options:
He feels the same way = you would know what to do ;)
He does not feel the same way = after a probably uncomfortable silence, you would feel devastated (depending on your spectations) and posibly the friendship wouldn´t be the same...
The disadvantage is you would probably lose a friend
The advantage is you would feel free
but that is just my opinion based on my experience so, who knows? you just have to go for it and see what happens :) |
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pixiedixie Posted Wed 26 Mar, 2008 4:05 PM |
The answer to your question, carmencita depends on how much you are willing to win or lose...
My experience tells me that sometimes is worth to take some risks and jump into the pool without knowing if its full or empty... In my case, it turned into a 8 year fantastic, full of laughs, loving, caring, wonderful relationship...
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Rhoobarb Posted Wed 26 Mar, 2008 5:06 PM |
Don't go through life thinking what if?
What if he feels the same way, but is too scared to lose you as a friend?. |
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Moray Posted Wed 26 Mar, 2008 5:22 PM |
| Get him really really drunk, then get yourself really really drunk and make out. It'll be awkward for a couple days after till you talk about it, but it'll all work out in the long run. |
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iraida Posted Wed 26 Mar, 2008 5:26 PM |
MoraySwan wrote: Get him really really drunk, then get yourself really really drunk and make out. It'll be awkward for a couple days after till you talk about it, but it'll all work out in the long run.
That´s what I said! in Spanish thou :) |
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megg_inc Posted Wed 26 Mar, 2008 5:29 PM |
MoraySwan wrote: Get him really really drunk, then get yourself really really drunk and make out. It'll be awkward for a couple days after till you talk about it, but it'll all work out in the long run.
That's the worst advice I hever ever heard of. lol |
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