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minnmess Posted Sat 18 Sep, 2010 1:15 PM |
deebee wrote: Pride when it gets the better of you. My Dad passed away yesterday and although it was a rocky relationship at times, I've messed up because there are alot of things I should have settled with him earlier.........and didn't. This is likely to be one of my biggest regrets.
im sorry to hear this Debs. I hope in time you can find peace with the situation. |
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Edel Posted Sat 18 Sep, 2010 1:38 PM |
minnmess wrote: deebee wrote: Pride when it gets the better of you. My Dad passed away yesterday and although it was a rocky relationship at times, I've messed up because there are alot of things I should have settled with him earlier.........and didn't. This is likely to be one of my biggest regrets.
im sorry to hear this Debs. I hope in time you can find peace with the situation.
Im sorry too Debbie:0( But Im sure he felt the same way about the situation and you both knew how you felt about each other deep down. Try not to dwell on the negative aspects and remember the good times, a lot easier said than done. I also hope you find peace:0) xoxo |
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SamuraiSandy Posted Sat 18 Sep, 2010 2:56 PM |
deebee wrote: Pride when it gets the better of you. My Dad passed away yesterday and although it was a rocky relationship at times, I've messed up because there are alot of things I should have settled with him earlier.........and didn't. This is likely to be one of my biggest regrets.
I'm so sorry to here this, Debs. I hope you come to find peace with it soon. |
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weirdmom Posted Sat 18 Sep, 2010 7:50 PM |
| Sorry to hear this Debs. |
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Turtleneck Posted Sat 18 Sep, 2010 11:56 PM |
| Sorry about your father. |
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deebee Posted Sun 19 Sep, 2010 9:33 AM |
| Thank you everyone for your kind words. It's going to be a shit time for a while but we'll muddle through. |
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Scottish Dubliner Posted Sun 19 Sep, 2010 5:48 PM |
| Debs, you are going to be ok. There is stuff left unsaid on both sides. It may be helpful to sit down and write Dad a letter, we know he'll never read it, but you might need to say it nonetheless. I'm really sorry for your loss and hope everything works out. Best of Luck. Steve |
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monkey Posted Sun 19 Sep, 2010 10:43 PM |
| Such sad news. Sorry to hear this |
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Nikki Posted Mon 20 Sep, 2010 12:37 AM |
| So sorry for your loss. |
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hennypenny Posted Mon 20 Sep, 2010 1:00 AM |
| So sorry for your loss Deb :( |
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mili Posted Mon 20 Sep, 2010 8:56 AM |
| Sorry to hear your sad news, Deb. Hope you'll feel better soon. |
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deebee Posted Mon 20 Sep, 2010 6:59 PM |
Scottish Dubliner wrote: It may be helpful to sit down and write Dad a letter, we know he'll never read it, but you might need to say it nonetheless.
You know, this is the most sensible suggestion I've heard since Friday - I think I will give it a go. Thanks Steve.
As for you guys, you are what makes this board so extraordinary and a place where I can always come to, to bend someone's ear and I really do thank you for that.
I'm still waiting for news about the funeral - apparently it can take up to 2 weeks to sort out in the UK (!!!) so I can't even book my flight back yet. I'm feeling a bit useless just sitting here in France twiddling my thumbs. |
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Turtleneck Posted Mon 20 Sep, 2010 7:20 PM |
| I got exfoliating scrub in my eye this morning. In case you've never done this, it hurts. |
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monkey Posted Mon 20 Sep, 2010 7:40 PM |
Turtleneck wrote: I got exfoliating scrub in my eye this morning. In case you've never done this, it hurts.
Next time eye think you should be more careful |
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Scottish Dubliner Posted Sun 26 Sep, 2010 9:50 PM |
Being sober, self medicating, and trying to figure out what the fuck is going on !!!
Dubz |
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