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dee Posted Tue 29 Sep, 2009 10:56 PM |
i am just so pissed off at how people just dismiss boys cheating as if thats just part of them, like that's just expected of young guys.
i am just horrified constantly at people breaking their hearts thinking that they are capable of just sleeping around and not getting emotionally involved. i am very certain that there are people who can separate sex and feelings but i am sick of people just pretending they can, making a fool of themselves by showing how little respect they have for their own feelings and those of others,
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monkey Posted Tue 29 Sep, 2009 11:14 PM |
dee wrote: i am just so pissed off at how people just dismiss boys cheating as if thats just part of them, like that's just expected of young guys.
i am just horrified constantly at people breaking their hearts thinking that they are capable of just sleeping around and not getting emotionally involved. i am very certain that there are people who can separate sex and feelings but i am sick of people just pretending they can, making a fool of themselves by showing how little respect they have for their own feelings and those of others,
i needed to rant
alcohol separates sex and feelings. if you drink enough not only do you not get emotionally involved but you also don't have to remember what she looks like!. it's win win |
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dee Posted Tue 29 Sep, 2009 11:24 PM |
monkey wrote: dee wrote: i am just so pissed off at how people just dismiss boys cheating as if thats just part of them, like that's just expected of young guys.
i am just horrified constantly at people breaking their hearts thinking that they are capable of just sleeping around and not getting emotionally involved. i am very certain that there are people who can separate sex and feelings but i am sick of people just pretending they can, making a fool of themselves by showing how little respect they have for their own feelings and those of others,
i needed to rant
alcohol separates sex and feelings. if you drink enough not only do you not get emotionally involved but you also don't have to remember what she looks like!. it's win win
all good and perfect at the time but i am guessing you don't have to sit around listening to friends picking apart texts and booty calls sent to see if its safe enough to admit to everybody else and themselves that they actually like the person.
currently i am just sickened people that fully know that who they are sleeping with have partners , and then thinking they're so cool by having casual sex when really they are just screwing themselves, who they are sleeping with and the poor clueless partner over when it all gets down to it.
to quote "people are just surrounded by temptation, there's no harm in it!"
so say fucking no to temptation, you are behaving like the scum you used to bitch about yourself.
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monkey Posted Tue 29 Sep, 2009 11:43 PM |
dee wrote:
all good and perfect at the time but i am guessing you don't have to sit around listening to friends picking apart texts and booty calls sent to see if its safe enough to admit to everybody else and themselves that they actually like the person.
i wouldn't sit around and listen to that crap as i am not a girl
dee wrote:
currently i am just sickened people that fully know that who they are sleeping with have partners , and then thinking they're so cool by having casual sex when really they are just screwing themselves, who they are sleeping with and the poor clueless partner over when it all gets down to it.
to quote "people are just surrounded by temptation, there's no harm in it!"
so say fucking no to temptation, you are behaving like the scum you used to bitch about yourself.
how do people get so desensitized to cheating?
people cheat because they're weak!. if things are anything less than perfect they just go for whatever else is on offer, it's sad.
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dee Posted Wed 30 Sep, 2009 12:07 AM |
monkey wrote: dee wrote:
all good and perfect at the time but i am guessing you don't have to sit around listening to friends picking apart texts and booty calls sent to see if its safe enough to admit to everybody else and themselves that they actually like the person.
i wouldn't sit around and listen to that crap as i am not a girl
people are saps.
FACT!
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Tracey982 Posted Thu 22 Oct, 2009 8:14 AM |
| I was watching an episode of Maury and this couple was together for 15 years, had children together and had a "great marraige", yet he slept with his sister in law! It makes me so mad to see or hear about stuff like that. |
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nickynooboo Posted Thu 22 Oct, 2009 11:08 AM |
dee wrote: monkey wrote: dee wrote:
all good and perfect at the time but i am guessing you don't have to sit around listening to friends picking apart texts and booty calls sent to see if its safe enough to admit to everybody else and themselves that they actually like the person.
i wouldn't sit around and listen to that crap as i am not a girl
are saps.
FACT!
*edited for political correctness
I too have listened to many girlfriends whine about men 'using' them etc But at the end of the day they hopped into bed more than likely knowing that the sex will lead to a big fat zilch.
I don't personally partake in one night stands, but I don't have anything against people who do. As long as they use a condom (and not just the pill as so many idiots do!) and have the sense to be honest with each other as to the lack of a relationship I don't really see the problem. And of course that they aren't sleeping with their best friends boyfriend, or aunties cousin, or whatever!!!!!
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