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audrey Posted Sun 03 Jun, 2007 3:53 PM |
hello, all.
please do not be alarmed. my last post was not posted to be a scare-tactic, but just to make people aware. i really hope all men and women realize they do not need to be treated in such a way. no one should ever have the right to say such things to people. if it happens to you, you should rightfully tell them to get fucked.
the said person has apologized, but i do believe an apology is deserved by more than myself.
so with that being said, its past, yeah?
lets all be happy and ditch the negative end. :)
this community is a GREAT place and im really thankful to have you all in my life, even if it is through the internet for now. :)
i cant wait to see travis next month!!!!!!!!!!!! :D |
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Gladly (the cross-eyed bear) Posted Sun 03 Jun, 2007 3:57 PM |
Ok, dont shoot me down for this. But i know someone who was asked the same thing as you by the same person. They took it as a joke.
I thought calling the person a pervert a bit extreme.
I guess its just down to how you interpret something. |
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audrey Posted Sun 03 Jun, 2007 3:58 PM |
Gladly (the cross-eyed bear) wrote: Ok, dont shoot me down for this. But i know someone who was asked the same thing as you by the same person. They took it as a joke.
I thought calling the person a pervert a bit extreme.
I guess its just down to how you interpret something.
i dont think it was a joke. and im not shooting you down when i say that.
i know it wasnt a joke, in fact. asking someone over and over, day after day, is not a joke.
its fine though. everything has been sorted. |
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Andrew Posted Sun 03 Jun, 2007 4:00 PM |
Gladly (the cross-eyed bear) wrote: But i know someone who was asked the same thing as you by the same person. They took it as a joke.
I thought calling the person a pervert a bit extreme.
I guess its just down to how you interpret something.
It very much didn't sound like a joke from what I;ve heard from other boardies |
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Gladly (the cross-eyed bear) Posted Sun 03 Jun, 2007 4:00 PM |
| Ok fair enough. In the context that it wasnt a one off, it was extremely wrong. |
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Gladly (the cross-eyed bear) Posted Sun 03 Jun, 2007 4:02 PM |
Andrew wrote: Gladly (the cross-eyed bear) wrote: But i know someone who was asked the same thing as you by the same person. They took it as a joke.
I thought calling the person a pervert a bit extreme.
I guess its just down to how you interpret something.
It very much didn't sound like a joke from what I;ve heard from other boardies
i didnt say it was a joke, i sid that someone who was asked took it as a joke. |
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Andrew Posted Sun 03 Jun, 2007 4:03 PM |
| Ah fair enough yeah |
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audrey Posted Sun 03 Jun, 2007 4:04 PM |
Gladly (the cross-eyed bear) wrote: Andrew wrote: Gladly (the cross-eyed bear) wrote: But i know someone who was asked the same thing as you by the same person. They took it as a joke.
I thought calling the person a pervert a bit extreme.
I guess its just down to how you interpret something.
It very much didn't sound like a joke from what I;ve heard from other boardies
i didnt say it was a joke, i sid that someone who was asked took it as a joke.
i can see how someone would take that as a joke. its so fucking out there that its hard to believe there being serious.
but in these instances, they werent jokes.
its all good gladly. :D |
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Gladly (the cross-eyed bear) Posted Sun 03 Jun, 2007 4:07 PM |
b.t.w iam refusing your request of SEND AWAY from last night.
Scarring someone's brain isnt something i could live with LOL |
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audrey Posted Sun 03 Jun, 2007 5:10 PM |
Gladly (the cross-eyed bear) wrote: b.t.w iam refusing your request of SEND AWAY from last night.
Scarring someone's brain isnt something i could live with LOL
heehee. ;) |
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Els* Posted Sun 03 Jun, 2007 5:51 PM |
geez, sexual harrassment of boardies on this messageboard, thats an eye opener. well you should shame them if they continue to harass you because afterall you did warn them.
i'm getting flashbacks of all the pervs i've had run-ins with at general admission concerts. i particularly dislike the "i can get you backstage" line and then proceeds to put their hands on you after you told them not interested. and then i proceed to call security after you give them warning not to do it again. bye bye jerks!!!
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nats Posted Sun 03 Jun, 2007 5:58 PM |
audrey wrote: hello, all.
please do not be alarmed. my last post was not posted to be a scare-tactic, but just to make people aware. i really hope all men and women realize they do not need to be treated in such a way. no one should ever have the right to say such things to people. if it happens to you, you should rightfully tell them to get fucked.
the said person has apologized, but i do believe an apology is deserved by more than myself.
so with that being said, its past, yeah?
lets all be happy and ditch the negative end. :)
this community is a GREAT place and im really thankful to have you all in my life, even if it is through the internet for now. :)
i cant wait to see travis next month!!!!!!!!!!!! :D
glad to hear its in the past
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Typing to Reach You Posted Sun 03 Jun, 2007 6:03 PM |
| I can't help but feel this is being a little too hyped up. I mean don't get me wrong, these messages this person has sent aren't exactly nice, but hey you get idiots on the internet. It's just one of those things you have to develop thick skin for I think. Of course if it's consistent, and actually takes the form of bullying, then tell the web team. I'm hoping it didn't get to that kind of stage though. |
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audrey Posted Sun 03 Jun, 2007 6:07 PM |
Typing to Reach You wrote: I can't help but feel this is being a little too hyped up. I mean don't get me wrong, these messages this person has sent aren't exactly nice, but hey you get idiots on the internet. It's just one of those things you have to develop thick skin for I think. Of course if it's consistent, and actually takes the form of bullying, then tell the web team. I'm hoping it didn't get to that kind of stage though.
i agree. but ive had at least 6 people email me about it saying its happened to them as well. not cool.
either way, hes apologized and thats good in my book. i just feel he owes it to other people to say sorry too. |
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emmahealy Posted Sun 03 Jun, 2007 10:34 PM |
| just typing crap to get this onto the top.. important for the night time/US boardies to see. |
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