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Scottish Dubliner Posted Wed 03 Oct, 2007 7:49 PM |
Does anyone actually think that the people on here who have no life (myself included), are the best qualified to give you advice on relationships??
First of all, you are not really gonna take it on board, you'll go do whatever you feel is right anyway.
Secondly, we're all sitting here on the interweb instead of spending time with or finding our so called perfect partner.
Thirdly, I know life is hard and growing up is even harder, and before you think I'm patronizing I'm 34 and still growing up. but fighting through it all and learning how to cope is a part of that, and all this councilling shite is weakening people's resolve.
Just a couple of thoughts...
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Sunny Posted Wed 03 Oct, 2007 7:53 PM |
Scottish Dubliner wrote:
Does anyone actually think that the people on here who have no life (myself included), are the best qualified to give you advice on relationships??
Absolutely not. As you say, you're unlikely to listen to it anyway, as situations and moods change rapidly. What's right for one person may be wrong for another. All you can do is muddle through in your own way.
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Gladly (the cross-eyed bear) Posted Wed 03 Oct, 2007 7:53 PM |
| Dear God i have found a spokesman. I can now retire :) |
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goosey_84 Posted Wed 03 Oct, 2007 7:56 PM |
| very good points Dubz...i especially agree that people are going to do what they feel is right anyway...no matter how much advice you give...it's how you learn what works for you. |
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Esteban Posted Wed 03 Oct, 2007 8:05 PM |
| I think some of it is attention seeking. |
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Gladly (the cross-eyed bear) Posted Wed 03 Oct, 2007 8:15 PM |
Esteban wrote: I think some of it is attention seeking.
No shit LOL |
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Esteban Posted Wed 03 Oct, 2007 8:25 PM |
Gladly (the cross-eyed bear) wrote: Esteban wrote: I think some of it is attention seeking.
No shit LOL
I came over with a wave of diplomacy. Humble apologies ;-) |
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Gladly (the cross-eyed bear) Posted Wed 03 Oct, 2007 8:38 PM |
| We'll have none of that. Stop it immediately. :) |
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Tonie Posted Wed 03 Oct, 2007 8:42 PM |
Esteban wrote: I think some of it is attention seeking.
Someone give that guy an OBE
Although for the record, I said something similar here first, a week or so ago ;)
It's a weird world if people think that a music forum is really the answer to their life and love problems.
But carry asking for help folks, if it does help....it's not doing any harm I guess.
ps. Great thread! |
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Esteban Posted Wed 03 Oct, 2007 8:53 PM |
=P Tonie.
When I said some of it is attention seeking, I base that on the fact that Paul posted with a dilemma, but I don't believe that Paul would be attention seeking for the sake of it. |
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Lemon Grinner Posted Wed 03 Oct, 2007 8:57 PM |
I imagine some people find it easier talkin to someone who aint involved. A bit like councilling only over the internet.
Izzit. |
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Scottish Dubliner Posted Wed 03 Oct, 2007 9:03 PM |
Lemon Grinner wrote: I imagine some people find it easier talkin to someone who aint involved. A bit like councilling only over the internet.
Izzit.
Yeah but why have councilling at all ??, yes when it's needed but these days everyone gets councilling for the least fucking thing!! as Esteban says at times I feel people should just "Grow a Pair" instead of taking the easy way out, councilling usually finds another outlet to blame... oh it was my childhood, or Oh I was from a broken home... Yeah usually you broke it ya fuck!! It's the same the problem with society today, It's always someone elses fault...
Is your kid Hyperactive or is he just a twat?? H.M.H.B.
Dubz
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Esteban Posted Wed 03 Oct, 2007 9:05 PM |
Lemon Grinner wrote: I imagine some people find it easier talkin to someone who aint involved. A bit like councilling only over the internet.
Izzit.
Yeah, but the instance that's led to Dubz starting this thread doesn't really need counselling as such. |
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Lemon Grinner Posted Wed 03 Oct, 2007 9:05 PM |
Scottish Dubliner wrote: Lemon Grinner wrote: I imagine some people find it easier talkin to someone who aint involved. A bit like councilling only over the internet.
Izzit.
Yeah but why have councilling at all ??, yes when it's needed but these days everyone gets councilling for the least fucking thing!! as Esteban says at times I feel people should just "Grow a Pair" instead of taking the easy way out, councilling usually finds another outlet to blame... oh it was my childhood, or Oh I was from a broken home... Yeah usually you broke it ya fuck!! It's the same the problem with society today, It's always someone elses fault...
Is your kid Hyperactive or is he just a twat?? H.M.H.B.
Dubz
I dont know what H.M.H.B. meeeeans!
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Esteban Posted Wed 03 Oct, 2007 9:07 PM |
Lemon Grinner wrote: Scottish Dubliner wrote: Lemon Grinner wrote: I imagine some people find it easier talkin to someone who aint involved. A bit like councilling only over the internet.
Izzit.
Yeah but why have councilling at all ??, yes when it's needed but these days everyone gets councilling for the least fucking thing!! as Esteban says at times I feel people should just "Grow a Pair" instead of taking the easy way out, councilling usually finds another outlet to blame... oh it was my childhood, or Oh I was from a broken home... Yeah usually you broke it ya fuck!! It's the same the problem with society today, It's always someone elses fault...
Is your kid Hyperactive or is he just a twat?? H.M.H.B.
Dubz
I dont know what H.M.H.B. meeeeans!
Gringo
Half Man Half Biscuit.
Lyrics intit. |
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