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Dutchgirl Posted Tue 10 Jul, 2007 6:53 PM |
i'm curious to know that are there mare people that have a boyfriend with childs? I met my boyfriend last year and he was divorced because his wife left him for a other men, he have 2 beautifull childeren in the age of 9 and 5, and we have them alot here :-) one week with the mother and new men, and one week with us and that goes the whole year, in the holidays they stay 3 weeks here and then 3 weeks there,
i just wondered if there are more people who have this?? i so wanna talk about some things because i just 24 and have 2 kids , I hope there are some people wanna listen and help with some things |
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happy_me Posted Tue 10 Jul, 2007 6:56 PM |
| sorry, don't have neither ;) |
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Monica Posted Tue 10 Jul, 2007 6:59 PM |
I can listen (if you want) but right now I'm single and very happy, haha. I don't "need" a boyfriend in this time of my life, I feel happy alone.
Your situation is really curious :p |
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weirdmom Posted Tue 10 Jul, 2007 7:02 PM |
Not in that situation but I have kids and I know they need consistency. That's great that at least when they're with their dad it's the same woman and not new men all the time like when they're with their mom. But I would only stay with this guy if you think it could be a forever type relationship because the more attached you are to the kids the harder it would be for you to leave and it would be similar to another divorce for them.
Don't know if you're looking more for support on being young(ish) for helping to raise two kids? |
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harry potter Posted Tue 10 Jul, 2007 7:02 PM |
"one week with the mother and new men, and one week with us..."
(fast forward 10 years)
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Dutchgirl Posted Tue 10 Jul, 2007 7:10 PM |
weirdmominaustin wrote: Not in that situation but I have kids and I know they need consistency. That's great that at least when they're with their dad it's the same woman and not new men all the time like when they're with their mom. But I would only stay with this guy if you think it could be a forever type relationship because the more attached you are to the kids the harder it would be for you to leave and it would be similar to another divorce for them.
well this realation is forever i hope, i feel very happy with him and he thinks the same about that, we can talk about everything just perfect,
just want to know what to do with some problems the kids have, the youngest doughter is very sweet but she really use her sister sometimes, the oldest one is very relax and want to do alot, but i think the youngest one use her
Don't know if you're looking more for support on being young(ish) for helping to raise two kids? |
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Dutchgirl Posted Tue 10 Jul, 2007 7:12 PM |
well this realation is forever i hope, i feel very happy with him and he thinks the same about that, we can talk about everything just perfect,
just want to know what to do with some problems the kids have, the youngest doughter is very sweet but she really use her sister sometimes, the oldest one is very relax and want to do alot, but i think the youngest one use her
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paul_c Posted Tue 10 Jul, 2007 7:39 PM |
happy_me wrote: sorry, don't have neither ;)
Me either. It'd be kinda weird if i did! Lol |
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AbsolutPurple Posted Tue 10 Jul, 2007 7:53 PM |
| do you mean yr bf 's ex has a different boyfriend every week ? |
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Sanne (nl) Posted Tue 10 Jul, 2007 7:56 PM |
AbsolutPurple wrote: do you mean yr bf 's ex has a different boyfriend every week ?
If so; then she's got too much spare time on her hands:)
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happy_me Posted Tue 10 Jul, 2007 7:57 PM |
paul_c wrote: happy_me wrote: sorry, don't have neither ;)
Me either. It'd be kinda weird if i did! Lol
aww, come out of the closet dear. |
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harry potter Posted Tue 10 Jul, 2007 7:57 PM |
Sanne (nl) wrote: AbsolutPurple wrote: do you mean yr bf 's ex has a different boyfriend every week ?
If so; then she's got too much spare time on her hands:)
amongst other things. |
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AbsolutPurple Posted Tue 10 Jul, 2007 7:57 PM |
Sanne (nl) wrote: AbsolutPurple wrote: do you mean yr bf 's ex has a different boyfriend every week ?
If so; then she's got too much spare time on her hands:)
and Attention Deficit Disorder |
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paul_c Posted Tue 10 Jul, 2007 7:58 PM |
happy_me wrote: paul_c wrote: happy_me wrote: sorry, don't have neither ;)
Me either. It'd be kinda weird if i did! Lol
aww, come out of the closet dear.
Was wondering why the feck it was so bloody dark!! :oP
No, i am in fact straight as a straight thing ;) |
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Lemon Grinner Posted Tue 10 Jul, 2007 7:58 PM |
harry potter wrote: Sanne (nl) wrote: AbsolutPurple wrote: do you mean yr bf 's ex has a different boyfriend every week ?
If so; then she's got too much spare time on her hands:)
amongst other things.
Hahaha =D |
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