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Sunny Posted Sat 02 Jun, 2007 9:51 PM |
audrey wrote: Sunny wrote: Sanne (nl) wrote: Reading this post these questions popped into my head:
- if this happens to me/you, wouldn't it be better to name names, in order to prevent it happening to anyone else?
- when a thing like this happens can you warn twt about it, and how?
1. Yes, I guess you should if the person still posts.
2. Yes, by leaving a post for them, asking them to contact you via email/PM if you want to discuss it. There is an email address for them, but I'm not sure it still goes to the right person.
Perhaps it'd be best to start with number 2, before number 1.
discuss it with that person? why would we need to do that? they have to know what they did was fucked up.. i mean, its obvious.
theres nothing to say to that person.
it makes me sick to think that since they name drop they can probably get what the ask for. thats what pisses me off.
i didnt hand over any photos, so i dont care. i stopped talking to them when that happened, which was good enough for me.
Discuss it with twt, not the actual person :)
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audrey Posted Sat 02 Jun, 2007 9:51 PM |
Sunny wrote: audrey wrote: Sunny wrote: Sanne (nl) wrote: Reading this post these questions popped into my head:
- if this happens to me/you, wouldn't it be better to name names, in order to prevent it happening to anyone else?
- when a thing like this happens can you warn twt about it, and how?
1. Yes, I guess you should if the person still posts.
2. Yes, by leaving a post for them, asking them to contact you via email/PM if you want to discuss it. There is an email address for them, but I'm not sure it still goes to the right person.
Perhaps it'd be best to start with number 2, before number 1.
discuss it with that person? why would we need to do that? they have to know what they did was fucked up.. i mean, its obvious.
theres nothing to say to that person.
it makes me sick to think that since they name drop they can probably get what the ask for. thats what pisses me off.
i didnt hand over any photos, so i dont care. i stopped talking to them when that happened, which was good enough for me.
Discuss it with twt, not the actual person :)
oy, i read that one wrong. ;) heeeee. |
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Sanne (nl) Posted Sat 02 Jun, 2007 9:56 PM |
audrey wrote: Sanne (nl) wrote: Reading this post these questions popped into my head:
- if this happens to me/you, wouldn't it be better to name names, in order to prevent it happening to anyone else?
- when a thing like this happens can you warn twt about it, and how?
if it happens to you, then youll know who it is.
im not on a witch hunt, i just felt like letting it be known out there.
Don;t get me wrong i am not trying to push you into telling. But i think if it happend to me i would make it known, to prefend it from happening to others. But maybe that;s just me feeling responsible for "everything". |
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nats Posted Sat 02 Jun, 2007 9:56 PM |
audrey wrote: Sunny wrote: audrey wrote: Sunny wrote: Sanne (nl) wrote: Reading this post these questions popped into my head:
- if this happens to me/you, wouldn't it be better to name names, in order to prevent it happening to anyone else?
- when a thing like this happens can you warn twt about it, and how?
1. Yes, I guess you should if the person still posts.
2. Yes, by leaving a post for them, asking them to contact you via email/PM if you want to discuss it. There is an email address for them, but I'm not sure it still goes to the right person.
Perhaps it'd be best to start with number 2, before number 1.
discuss it with that person? why would we need to do that? they have to know what they did was fucked up.. i mean, its obvious.
theres nothing to say to that person.
it makes me sick to think that since they name drop they can probably get what the ask for. thats what pisses me off.
i didnt hand over any photos, so i dont care. i stopped talking to them when that happened, which was good enough for me.
Discuss it with twt, not the actual person :)
oy, i read that one wrong. ;) heeeee.
I read it wrong too... i was wondering why would you discuss anything with that person...I understand now :s |
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Typing to Reach You Posted Sat 02 Jun, 2007 9:56 PM |
audrey wrote: dont you hate it when people randomly message you and talk about how cool they are (ie: im friends with this band, this guy, so on and so forth)? then, after youve been speaking with them for awhile, they start to hassle you for naked photos of yourself?
yeah. thats fucked up.
ive had that happen a couple of times. once even on this message board.
i find it to be pretty revolting. whats even more revolting is when youve found out that its happened to more than one person of the same board.
tsk tsk.
Name and shame! This is a messageboard of justice! |
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audrey Posted Sat 02 Jun, 2007 10:00 PM |
Sanne (nl) wrote: audrey wrote: Sanne (nl) wrote: Reading this post these questions popped into my head:
- if this happens to me/you, wouldn't it be better to name names, in order to prevent it happening to anyone else?
- when a thing like this happens can you warn twt about it, and how?
if it happens to you, then youll know who it is.
im not on a witch hunt, i just felt like letting it be known out there.
Don;t get me wrong i am not trying to push you into telling. But i think if it happend to me i would make it known, to prefend it from happening to others. But maybe that;s just me feeling responsible for "everything".
you have a pm. |
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nats Posted Sat 02 Jun, 2007 10:04 PM |
audrey wrote: Sanne (nl) wrote: audrey wrote: Sanne (nl) wrote: Reading this post these questions popped into my head:
- if this happens to me/you, wouldn't it be better to name names, in order to prevent it happening to anyone else?
- when a thing like this happens can you warn twt about it, and how?
if it happens to you, then youll know who it is.
im not on a witch hunt, i just felt like letting it be known out there.
Don;t get me wrong i am not trying to push you into telling. But i think if it happend to me i would make it known, to prefend it from happening to others. But maybe that;s just me feeling responsible for "everything".
i guess its a hard decision |
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Sanne (nl) Posted Sat 02 Jun, 2007 10:07 PM |
figured it out now, there are reasons the justify not telling names. Still it is good to talk about things like this, it gives of the signal that the majority of people on this board is actually very sane, lol
or should that be responsible, haha.
seriously, posting the first message of the thread was warning enough, right?! |
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Sunny Posted Sat 02 Jun, 2007 10:09 PM |
Sanne (nl) wrote:
seriously, posting the first message of the thread was warning enough, right?!
Aye, the person in question will have definitely figured it out by now :)
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audrey Posted Sat 02 Jun, 2007 10:10 PM |
Sunny wrote: Sanne (nl) wrote:
seriously, posting the first message of the thread was warning enough, right?!
Aye, the person in question will have definitely figured it out by now :)
yes. and i hope every person that this has happened to will PM me. i would like to know. seems like there are more people than i thought before. |
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Sanne (nl) Posted Sat 02 Jun, 2007 10:14 PM |
ahhhhh happy endings, gotta love them.
I can get a good night sleep now!
So i am off, for some heavenly sleeping hours.(god that must have been the worst semi english sentence i produced on this new board, lol)
Good night all!! |
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bridget jones Posted Sun 03 Jun, 2007 3:28 AM |
audrey wrote: dont you hate it when people randomly message you and talk about how cool they are (ie: im friends with this band, this guy, so on and so forth)? then, after youve been speaking with them for awhile, they start to hassle you for naked photos of yourself?
Hi Audrey - I think I can guess who the perv is. I always thought he was a pompous ass & now I guess he's a pervert as well. So sorry for how creepy & frustrating it must be for you. I agree with others that you should report this to the new TWT. |
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bridget jones Posted Sun 03 Jun, 2007 3:43 AM |
lulu07 wrote:
who said it? Harry Potter?
What the hell has Harry ever done that would make you say something like that? You shouldn't throw out specific names when you have no clue about the situation or the person in question. Moron. |
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Andrew Posted Sun 03 Jun, 2007 4:29 AM |
I'm drunk want to say who it is but I'm not sure if folk might object
(Soberer) EDIT: yeah it would be stupid to, but as i said hope this serves as a warning and it doesn't require the name to come out. |
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nats Posted Sun 03 Jun, 2007 4:33 AM |
Andrew wrote: I'm drunk want to say who it is but I'm not sure if folk might object
drunk again? ;)
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