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monkey Posted Wed 31 Mar, 2010 12:54 AM |
Quick qustion that will no doubt make me sound like a big girl. at what point does it become acceptable to tell someone you're close with and dating that you're in love with them?. Also would saying "i....you know" ever be enough? |
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hennypenny Posted Wed 31 Mar, 2010 1:23 AM |
monkey wrote: Quick qustion that will no doubt make me sound like a big girl. at what point does it become acceptable to tell someone you're close with and dating that you're in love with them?. Also would saying "i....you know" ever be enough?
For me, it would depend on how long we've been together and if I got the feeling they felt the same way about me. I don't think saying "I...you know" could ever be enough. If thats how you truly feel then you should say it, because you might regret not saying it later on. Anyways, thats my little opinion. Hope it helps you Andrew:)
Btw, who wouldn't love Andrew:P
Edit: I forgot to say that I told Erick "I love you" for the first time after about 1 and a half to 2 months. (I think) |
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minnmess Posted Wed 31 Mar, 2010 1:25 AM |
clearly Im in no position to give actual advice given that I know nothing about relationships and have never been anywhere close to being in love, but I would say...
1. I dont think there is an "acceptable time." it's whenever it feels right
2. NO andrew!
clearly I dont talk to you enough. Who are you dating? |
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monkey Posted Wed 31 Mar, 2010 1:46 AM |
thanks for the help. just to clear things up i am as emotionally retarded as the questions would sugest ;) |
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AbsGinger Posted Wed 31 Mar, 2010 6:58 PM |
Ooooooooooh la la !!!!
Had lunch with some colleagues and the place is VERY competitive.
Better listen to everything and keep my mouth shut. |
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weirdmom Posted Wed 31 Mar, 2010 7:14 PM |
AbsGinger wrote: Better listen to everything and keep my mouth shut.
I'd say that is a wise move. |
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malmaison Posted Wed 31 Mar, 2010 8:19 PM |
making something special for my special friend cuz it's his b-day! :-D yay!! |
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AbsGinger Posted Wed 31 Mar, 2010 8:52 PM |
weirdmom wrote: AbsGinger wrote: Better listen to everything and keep my mouth shut.
I'd say that is a wise move.
I got fired once for speaking out but that didn't teach me a lesson.
Shutting up is SO not me but I have to behave now. |
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I Came in Through the Bathroom Window Posted Wed 31 Mar, 2010 9:33 PM |
I handed in my last paper for uni. That's it. They'll take over a month evaluating it, but it doesn't depend on me anymore. It doesn't feel like it's over, though. I guess I'll really feel it's over once the professors tell me the research report is ok and assign me the 50 research hours I need.
But, I've done everything I had to do to become a Sociologist, lol.
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minnmess Posted Wed 31 Mar, 2010 10:12 PM |
congrats on being done Juli! |
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ricv64 Posted Wed 31 Mar, 2010 10:48 PM |
I Came in Through the Bathroom Window wrote:
But, I've done everything I had to do to become a Sociologist, lol.
Like start a infamous underworld crime organization ? |
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minnmess Posted Wed 31 Mar, 2010 11:43 PM |
ricv64 wrote: I Came in Through the Bathroom Window wrote:
But, I've done everything I had to do to become a Sociologist, lol.
Like start a infamous underworld crime organization ?
I dont know why, but it Ric's post, I thought it said scientologist. |
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hennypenny Posted Thu 01 Apr, 2010 5:07 AM |
Congrats Juli! Well done! |
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allyouneedisfelp Posted Thu 01 Apr, 2010 7:58 AM |
aye!! stay cool! |
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weirdmom Posted Thu 01 Apr, 2010 2:56 PM |
Congrats Juli!!
I took our new dog to doggy day care today. She has been yowling a lot in the crate at night and I am hoping if I can wear her out more she will not do it. I haven't been getting as much sleep as I'd like because of this nutty little mutt.
Am tired of working all day, taking care of children, packing, and dealing with a yowly dog. I am happy my husband will be home tomorrow.
Am moving in 8 days. |
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